And you have to be willing to seek out new places and ways to find men that interest you.People get divorced, have kids, accumulate debt, and, well, let’s just say that we all have baggage. You’ll learn a lot about what it’s like just to hang out and do something together. But if you focus on requirements and prerequisites, you can’t make that connection. So instead of listening only to see if his “resume” fits, really pay attention. And give you a far better idea about whether or not you have a connection. But here are some of the specific complaints I hear: “There aren’t any good men.” “No one is worth my time.” “Guys don’t want to commit.” Yes, many older men are either jaded, too stubborn, or uninterested in starting over and building something beautiful with you.
And it’s a lot easier to fall for a person over time.
When you decide to go out with someone, mentally dedicate yourself to a block of time.
And I’ve touched on this already, but it’s worth repeating. Unless you’re literally speed-dating, you have to give a man more than one shot at impressing you.
Because they learn that dating men outside their “type” might not be so bad. And you know right from the start that this guy is not going to fit your typical requirements. If the experience is absolutely awful, obviously, you don’t have to stay.
At least an hour, but preferably two or three hours spread over two or three different encounters.